A man without a plan
It’s now been almost three weeks since I decided to move to Peru and I’ve told several people about it since. A few people have asked questions like ‘why are you going?’, ‘what will you be doing when you get there?’. And I usually have to respond with “I’m not sure yet!”. Understandably people are a little bemused by that.
It’s true I don’t have any concrete plans, or even a place to live yet. And that’s how I like it.
I’m following my intuition (a powerful driving force in my life) so I know that I’m going to Peru for a good reason but I don’t need to be too concerned about what that reason is yet. I just trust that everything will unfold as and when it should - just like it always does.
I think too many people get so caught up (and even obsessed) with their plans and goals that they lose sight of the present moment and forget just how magical life really is. But magic can only happen in the moment, not in the past or the future.
Now, I’m certainly not saying it’s wrong to have plans or goals. Some things definitely benefit from planning, like a business for example. Or any large event like a festival, exhibition or even a wedding is not going to be successful if it isn’t well planned out in advance.
However, I think it’s easy for people to get so obsessed with planing that they often lose the ability to be spontaneous. And trust me, spontaneity is where most of the fun happens!
Think of the last few situations where you were having the most fun and experiencing the most joy. Were those situations planned long in advance, or did they happen fairly spontaneously? I think most people will realise that the best times just seem to arise from nowhere.
So no plans for me just yet. I want this journey to unfold and be as spontaneous and magical as possible. Hopefully that makes sense!
Question for the comments: When was the last time you had an incredible life experience that you weren’t expecting?






Congrats on your spontaneous life changing trip! Sounds like the Celestine Prophesy, only, for real.
Cool blog too. I agree about the spontaneity thing. You have to go where you’re guided, and be in the flow, and be open to change. An 8-5, M-F work schedule in some corporate-y, office environment is a bit soul crushing, and after awhile one feels like they’re being squashed down, slowly turning into the lifeless droids that surround them. (okay, maybe it’s just me……….! haha) So that’s cool that you’re not conforming to that lifestyle and are free. Those like me will live vicariously through you.
To answer the question you posed, in my own life I’ve had a few incredible life experiences that I wasn’t expecting, and each time they were spontaneous. Just last minute, spur of the moment trips on a whim. Totally fun too, great times. But yours - buying a one way ticket to Peru….that takes the cake.
Congrats again, enjoy every moment……
Thanks for your comments Carissa, it’s great to hear from you. I totally relate to the whole corporate job thing, there’s no way I could ever work in an office again, or not without it destroying my soul! Interestingly enough, on my aya journey on Saturday I had a vision of you and Tom coming to visit me here! So how’s about you both taking a trip down here? The energy and vibration of this place is amazing. It would be awesome if you could make it! I’ve always wanted to meet you both.